Fences and Nails
Once there was a boy who is grumpy. To reduce customs angry child, his father gave him a bag of nails and told the boy to hammering the nails into the fence every time he gets angry.
The first day the boy has hammered 48 nails into the fence whenever he gets angry. Then gradually the number was reduced. He found that are easier to hold his temper than hammering nails into the fence.
Finally the day came when the boy was completely able to control his temper and not quickly lose patience. He told this to his father, who then suggested that he pull out one nail for each day that he was not angry.
The days passed and the boy was finally tell his father that all the nails had been pulled out by it. Then the father led his son to the fence. "Well, you have succeeded with both my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same as before." When you say things in anger. Your words leave marks like these holes on the hearts of others.
You can thrust a knife on someone, then pull out the knife. But no matter several times you apologize that wound will still be there. AND injuries because the words are just as bad as physical injuries. "
Indeed, an apology can treat many things. But apparently we also have to remember that none of this would have no meaning when we repeat the mistakes it back.
This story is a simile, a proverb, a parable and an entrepreneurial-tale. It is reasonable to make mistakes, but he also taught to avoid this is another thing we can do.
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